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Book Talk: The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays with Irena Smith

Virtual Event

2024-08-15 11:00:00 2024-08-15 12:00:00 America/Los_Angeles Book Talk: The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays with Irena Smith The College application season is around the corner. Join Irena Smith, PhD. to hear about constructive and healthy ways to approach the application process and help your teen define success on their terms instead of chasing the “golden ticket.” A C Bilbrew Library -

Thursday, August 15
11:00am - 12:00pm

Add to Calendar 2024-08-15 11:00:00 2024-08-15 12:00:00 America/Los_Angeles Book Talk: The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays with Irena Smith The College application season is around the corner. Join Irena Smith, PhD. to hear about constructive and healthy ways to approach the application process and help your teen define success on their terms instead of chasing the “golden ticket.” A C Bilbrew Library -

The College application season is around the corner. Join Irena Smith, PhD. to hear about constructive and healthy ways to approach the application process and help your teen define success on their terms instead of chasing the “golden ticket.”

Irena is a former Stanford Admissions Officer who has spent 18 years advising accomplished, tightly-wound students in Palo Alto and around the world. She saw firsthand the extreme measures parents took to help their children gain admission to highly selective colleges and the toll it took on the children as well as on their parents.

At the same time, Irena’s own children struggled with developmental delays, learning differences, severe depression, and anxiety. She kept her double life—successful college counselor at work, anxious mom at home—tightly under wraps for years until a stunning realization: she was exactly like the anxious parents of the students she worked with, all of whom were equally terrified about their children's future. Irena’s memoir, The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays, which candidly explores her personal as well as professional life, was published in 2023, and she has since devoted her time to speaking out about hard things: the heavy burden of generational expectations, teen and young adult mental health, and the importance of embracing a broader, more generous vision of what it means to succeed. To learn more about Irena’s personal experience as a parent, professional experience as a college admissions officer, and leave with tips on how to help your child approach the application process in practical, healthy ways–register now!

About the Author: Irena Smith is an author, former Stanford admissions officer, independent college counselor, and mother of three extraordinary children. She emigrated from the former Soviet Union with her parents when she was nine years old. In spite of her fierce insistence that she would never, not ever, learn English, she went on to earn a BA in English and then a PhD in Comparative Literature (both from UCLA, where she received a Distinguished Teaching Assistant Award and Dissertation Year Fellowship). Irena taught literature and composition at UCLA and Stanford before transitioning to college admissions, college advising, and writing. Her recently published memoir, The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays is the winner of the Story Circle Network's Gilda Award, named in honor of comedian Gilda Radner to recognize honest, authentic writing that "makes us laugh even when we want to cry." It's been described by Forbes as “captivating and smart… a potential antidote to the fevered belief that being admitted to an elite college will spell the difference between a successful life vs. a doomed future.” She has given a TEDx talk on humanizing the college application process and writes about parenting, college admissions, and redefining success in her weekly Substack newsletter, The Golden Ticket (is not what you think). You can also find her on Substack at Personal Statements. 

AGE GROUP: | Teens | Adults |

EVENT TYPE: | Education & Literacy | Business, Career, & Finance |

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A C Bilbrew Library

Phone: 310.538.3350

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Mon, May 11 10:00AM to 8:00PM
Tue, May 12 10:00AM to 8:00PM
Wed, May 13 10:00AM to 8:00PM
Thu, May 14 10:00AM to 8:00PM
Fri, May 15 10:00AM to 6:00PM
Sat, May 16 10:00AM to 6:00PM
Sun, May 17 Closed

About the branch

Located in a shopping center from 1964 to 1974, the North Enterprise Branch became the A C Bilbrew Library with the opening of the present building on November 2, 1974. Los Angeles County Supervisor Kenneth Hahn was instrumental in the library obtaining funding through a Model Neighborhood Development Program to build a 21,000 square foot library with a capacity to house 100,000 books. The library was designed by Vincent Proby, an African-American architect and is named for Madame A C Bilbrew, a community leader and former deputy for Supervisor Hahn who was also a musician and poet.

In 1933, Mrs. Bilbrew was the first black soloist to appear on radio, and in 1928, she produced the first Negro chorus that was featured in Hollywood's first Negro talkie, titled "Hearts in Dixie." She was the first black person to have a radio show. Mrs. Bilbrew was also a producer of pageants and dramas, an outstanding dramatic reader, and choral director.

A C Bilbrew Library houses the Black Resource Center which supports research and study on social, historical, musical, and cultural aspects unique to the "Black Experience" such as Juneteenth and Kwanzaa. From 1980-2008, A C Bilbrew Library has hosted the County Library's African American History Month Celebration. The "Living Black History Tribute" first honoree was Eubie Blake. This became the "African-American Living Legend" Series. Past Honorees have included Cab Calloway, Count Basie, Rosa Parks, James Baldwin, Coretta Scott King, and Ray Charles. An interactive Living Legends digital display is featured in the main lobby. The library is located in an unincorporated area west of the City of Compton.

Upcoming events

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Tue, May 12, 3:00pm - 4:00pm
Meeting Room
Join Phoebe Chow for a food demonstration and a brief cultural and historical background of the Pineapple Bun Cake/Bo Law Bao. Recipes and samples will be provided. For children and families ages 6+.

Wed, May 13, 11:15am - 11:45am
Activity Room
Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. Arts and craft extension activity included. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, May 13, 11:45am - 12:15pm
Please join us for a Parent Café, an opportunity to chat with other caregivers and gather parenting tips from a Triple P Positive Parenting Program accredited librarian.

Thu, May 14, 3:30pm - 5:00pm
Activity Room
Are you a teen interested in making a difference in your library and community? Join the Teen Advisory Board! Afterwards, join us and learn about zines and make a perzine - a mini magazine that is reflective of you. For Ages 13 - 17

Mon, May 18, 1:00pm - 2:00pm
Activity Room
Join us for a friendly, easy-to-understand workshop about using today’s smart tools to make life a little easier. For adults.

Tue, May 19, 4:00pm - 5:00pm
Activity Room
Rooted in the exhibition Grounded, construct an abstract landscape using earth tones and natural materials, like clay, rice, and grass elements. For ages 6+.  Seating is limited and on a first-come, first- seated basis.

Wed, May 20, 11:15am - 11:45am
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Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. Arts and craft extension activity included. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Thu, May 21, 4:00pm - 6:00pm
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Join us for a screening of Allegiance which is inspired by stories from George Takei’s life, specifically during World War II when he and his family, along with 120,000 Japanese American citizens, were incarcerated in camps within the United States.

Tue, May 26, 4:00pm - 5:30pm
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Film Rating: PG. Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult caregiver to enter. Personal snacks and refreshments are allowed. Seating is limited and on a first come, first seated basis. All ages welcome.

Wed, May 27, 11:15am - 11:45am
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Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. Arts and craft extension activity included. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, May 27, 11:45am - 12:15pm
Activity Room
Please join us for a Parent Café, an opportunity to chat with other caregivers and gather parenting tips from a Triple P Positive Parenting Program accredited librarian.

Wed, Jun 03, 11:15am - 11:45am
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Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. Arts and craft extension activity included. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, Jun 03, 4:00pm - 5:00pm
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Join us as we kick-off our Summer of Soccer with Makey Makey circuit boards! Teens will create their own game controllers and test their moves on the virtual soccer field. For teens ages 12-18.

Thu, Jun 04, 4:00pm - 5:00pm
Activity Room
Learn about the ancient and modern art technique of block printing, celebrated and used by many different cultures. Join us to carve your own stamps and print your designs.  For ages 13 - 17.

Sat, Jun 06, 2:00pm - 3:30pm
Activity Room
Come create your own Juneteenth jewelry masterpiece. Dive into the fundamentals of art & creativity by exploring the medium of jewelry making. All skill levels are welcome. All materials provided. For 18 +

Tue, Jun 09, 3:00pm - 4:00pm
Meeting Room
Join Wild Man Dan for an unforgettable journey into the fascinating world of creepy crawlies and slithery friends! For children and families ages 5+.

Wed, Jun 10, 11:15am - 11:45am
Activity Room
Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. Arts and craft extension activity included. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.