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Book Talk: The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays with Irena Smith

Virtual Event

2024-08-15 11:00:00 2024-08-15 12:00:00 America/Los_Angeles Book Talk: The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays with Irena Smith The College application season is around the corner. Join Irena Smith, PhD. to hear about constructive and healthy ways to approach the application process and help your teen define success on their terms instead of chasing the “golden ticket.” A C Bilbrew Library -

Thursday, August 15
11:00am - 12:00pm

The College application season is around the corner. Join Irena Smith, PhD. to hear about constructive and healthy ways to approach the application process and help your teen define success on their terms instead of chasing the “golden ticket.”

Irena is a former Stanford Admissions Officer who has spent 18 years advising accomplished, tightly-wound students in Palo Alto and around the world. She saw firsthand the extreme measures parents took to help their children gain admission to highly selective colleges and the toll it took on the children as well as on their parents.

At the same time, Irena’s own children struggled with developmental delays, learning differences, severe depression, and anxiety. She kept her double life—successful college counselor at work, anxious mom at home—tightly under wraps for years until a stunning realization: she was exactly like the anxious parents of the students she worked with, all of whom were equally terrified about their children's future. Irena’s memoir, The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays, which candidly explores her personal as well as professional life, was published in 2023, and she has since devoted her time to speaking out about hard things: the heavy burden of generational expectations, teen and young adult mental health, and the importance of embracing a broader, more generous vision of what it means to succeed. To learn more about Irena’s personal experience as a parent, professional experience as a college admissions officer, and leave with tips on how to help your child approach the application process in practical, healthy ways–register now!

About the Author: Irena Smith is an author, former Stanford admissions officer, independent college counselor, and mother of three extraordinary children. She emigrated from the former Soviet Union with her parents when she was nine years old. In spite of her fierce insistence that she would never, not ever, learn English, she went on to earn a BA in English and then a PhD in Comparative Literature (both from UCLA, where she received a Distinguished Teaching Assistant Award and Dissertation Year Fellowship). Irena taught literature and composition at UCLA and Stanford before transitioning to college admissions, college advising, and writing. Her recently published memoir, The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays is the winner of the Story Circle Network's Gilda Award, named in honor of comedian Gilda Radner to recognize honest, authentic writing that "makes us laugh even when we want to cry." It's been described by Forbes as “captivating and smart… a potential antidote to the fevered belief that being admitted to an elite college will spell the difference between a successful life vs. a doomed future.” She has given a TEDx talk on humanizing the college application process and writes about parenting, college admissions, and redefining success in her weekly Substack newsletter, The Golden Ticket (is not what you think). You can also find her on Substack at Personal Statements. 

AGE GROUP: | Teens | Adults |

EVENT TYPE: | Education & Literacy | Business, Career, & Finance |

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A C Bilbrew Library

Phone: 310.538.3350

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Mon, Nov 02 10:00AM to 8:00PM
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Thu, Nov 05 10:00AM to 8:00PM
Fri, Nov 06 10:00AM to 6:00PM
Sat, Nov 07 10:00AM to 6:00PM
Sun, Nov 08 Closed

About the branch

Located in a shopping center from 1964 to 1974, the North Enterprise Branch became the A C Bilbrew Library with the opening of the present building on November 2, 1974. Los Angeles County Supervisor Kenneth Hahn was instrumental in the library obtaining funding through a Model Neighborhood Development Program to build a 21,000 square foot library with a capacity to house 100,000 books. The library was designed by Vincent Proby, an African-American architect and is named for Madame A C Bilbrew, a community leader and former deputy for Supervisor Hahn who was also a musician and poet.

In 1933, Mrs. Bilbrew was the first black soloist to appear on radio, and in 1928, she produced the first Negro chorus that was featured in Hollywood's first Negro talkie, titled "Hearts in Dixie." She was the first black person to have a radio show. Mrs. Bilbrew was also a producer of pageants and dramas, an outstanding dramatic reader, and choral director.

A C Bilbrew Library houses the Black Resource Center which supports research and study on social, historical, musical, and cultural aspects unique to the "Black Experience" such as Juneteenth and Kwanzaa. From 1980-2008, A C Bilbrew Library has hosted the County Library's African American History Month Celebration. The "Living Black History Tribute" first honoree was Eubie Blake. This became the "African-American Living Legend" Series. Past Honorees have included Cab Calloway, Count Basie, Rosa Parks, James Baldwin, Coretta Scott King, and Ray Charles. An interactive Living Legends digital display is featured in the main lobby. The library is located in an unincorporated area west of the City of Compton.

Upcoming events

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Wed, Nov 04, 11:15am - 11:45am
Activity Room
Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, Nov 04, 12:00pm - 4:00pm
In response to an increase in fentanyl and other opioid related overdoses, we've partnered with the County of Los Angeles Department of Public Health and California Department of Health Care Services to offer free doses of Naloxone (Narcan).

Thu, Nov 12, 11:00am - 12:00pm
Activity Room
Come play with us! Help your child practice fine motor, gross motor, and social/emotional skills through the art of play. A large variety of engaging toys/materials will be available. For infants and toddlers ages 0-5 with a parent or caregiver.

Thu, Nov 12, 3:00pm - 5:00pm
Activity Room
Combine creativity and sustainability by learning to sew a tote bag you can use year after year. For teens.
This event is full

Tue, Nov 17, 4:00pm - 5:00pm
Activity Room
Join LACMA to sculpt a clay calavera (skull), as seen in Manuel Álvarez Bravo’s Día de Todos Muertos (1933), in honor of the Día de los Muertos ancestral tradition. For ages 6 and up

Wed, Nov 18, 11:15am - 11:45am
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Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, Nov 18, 12:00pm - 4:00pm
In response to an increase in fentanyl and other opioid related overdoses, we've partnered with the County of Los Angeles Department of Public Health and California Department of Health Care Services to offer free doses of Naloxone (Narcan).

Wed, Nov 18, 6:00pm - 7:00pm
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Native American communities have highly documented genealogical lineages due to their cultural traditions of honoring ancestors as well as their complex histories with colonial powers, the US federal government, and state governments. For adults.

Thu, Nov 19, 3:30pm - 5:00pm
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Are you a teen interested in making a difference in your library and community? Join the Teen Advisory Board! For teens ages 13 - 17

Thu, Nov 19, 6:00pm - 7:00pm
Meeting Room
Join us as we bring to light a forgotten part of America's past the cultural & racial fusion of Native & African Americans. This film features many interviews of living, breathing Black Indians who share their personal thoughts, feelings, & outlook.

Sat, Nov 21, 2:00pm - 4:00pm
Activity Room
Join us for our family movie: Harold and the Purple Crayon. Inspired by the popular book "Harold and the Purple Crayon" by Crockett Johnson. Rating: PG Runtime: 92 minutes For ages 6+

Tue, Nov 24, 10:30am - 12:30pm
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The impact of grief and loss will be discussed along with examples of healthy grieving and resiliency in the midst of loss. English workshop is from 10:30 - 11:30 am  Spanish workshop is from 11:30 am - 12:30 pm

Tue, Nov 24, 3:30pm - 4:30pm
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Celebrate Native American Heritage Month with this month's Book Adventure, a read aloud book club. Join our read aloud of "We Are Water Protectors" by Carole Lindstrom. For kids ages 5 - 12 with parent or caregiver.

Wed, Nov 25, 11:15am - 11:45am
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Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, Nov 25, 11:45am - 12:15pm
Please join us for a Parent Café, an opportunity to chat with other caregivers and gather parenting tips from a Triple P Positive Parenting Program accredited librarian.

Wed, Nov 25, 12:00pm - 4:00pm
In response to an increase in fentanyl and other opioid related overdoses, we've partnered with the County of Los Angeles Department of Public Health and California Department of Health Care Services to offer free doses of Naloxone (Narcan).

Wed, Nov 25, 6:00pm - 7:00pm
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Did you know that solving puzzles can help reduce stress, improve your mood, and strengthen your brain's processes? Join us for a fun and engaging night of puzzle solving! For adults.

Tue, Dec 01, 10:30am - 12:30pm
Meeting Room
This workshop will discuss the physical and emotional impact stress can have on health and wellbeing. Participants will also gain tips on how to handle stress in a healthy and productive way.

Wed, Dec 02, 11:15am - 11:45am
Activity Room
Let’s get ready for school! Enjoy books, songs, rhymes, and movement while learning school readiness skills and having fun. For ages 2 - 5 with their parent or caregiver.

Wed, Dec 02, 12:00pm - 4:00pm
In response to an increase in fentanyl and other opioid related overdoses, we've partnered with the County of Los Angeles Department of Public Health and California Department of Health Care Services to offer free doses of Naloxone (Narcan).